a) “Strictly speaking, words play no part at all in healing.” (ACIM, M-21.1:1)
b) However: “Is the teacher of God, then, to avoid the use of words in his teaching? ²No, indeed! ³There are many who must be reached through words, being as yet unable to hear in silence. ⁴The teacher of God must, however, learn to use words in a new way. ⁵Gradually, he learns how to let his words be chosen for him by ceasing to decide for himself what he will say. ⁶This process is merely a special case of the lesson in the workbook that says, “I will step back and let Him lead the way.” ⁷The teacher of God accepts the words which are offered him, and gives as he receives. ⁸He does not control the direction of his speaking. ⁹He listens and hears and speaks.” (ACIM, M-21.4:1-9)
c) “Judge not the words that come to you but offer them in confidence. ⁷They are far wiser than your own. ⁸God’s teachers have God’s Word behind their symbols. ⁹And He Himself gives to the words they use the power of His Spirit, raising them from meaningless symbols to the Call of Heaven itself. (ACIM, M-21.5:6-9)”
This may seem incredible; however, invoke the willingness to experiment. If you are coordinating a formal study group or class, start off with an invitation to the Holy Spirit/The Force to guide you – all of you. If you are encountering one or more at a time and the conversation is going toward enlightening topics, take a breath and silently ask for guidance. Then see what happens. Eventually you will experience a more peaceful and loving environment.